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beyond the binaries

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lizardwalk:

misterstibbons:

[Image Description: A young boy with close-cropped hair wearing a pink dress and smiling broadly.]
ebullientefflorescence:

Today Tristin wore his dress. Not a huge thing as he wears it quite often but this was different. Today was the first time he kept it on when we left. Usually when he wears it he will change, completely his choice, if I say we are going somewhere. He just wasn’t quite comfortable going out in public with it. Today he just put on his sandals. I asked him a couple times if he was sure and he was. So with a boy in a pink dress and Tinkerbell flip flops, we went. 
We hit up Goodwill (finally found some teacups I liked!), Lowe’s and Target. I kept a look out for how people reacted to him, just so if he noticed I could talk with him about it later. There were some curious looks but nothing major. Most people were looking at my hair anyway. The only negative reaction I saw was actually a surprising one. A young girl maybe nine years old gave him a dirty look as we were walking out of Target. Tristin didn’t notice since he was talking about his new Hello Kitty flip brush/mirror.  
I know there will be a day when he will notice how some people treat those who are “different” but I’m glad that for now he took a big step for himself and the world as he knows it is alright. 


Ahh, my heart! 
On top of the general adorbness of the story:
I had a childhood wearing dresses some of the time (albeit ones chosen by my mother, who had very….early 80s taste….) and got given Hello Kitty accessories, and it’s really nice to see a male-assigned and apparently male-identified child having similar experiences and still being recognised as male.

lizardwalk:

misterstibbons:

[Image Description: A young boy with close-cropped hair wearing a pink dress and smiling broadly.]

ebullientefflorescence:

Today Tristin wore his dress. Not a huge thing as he wears it quite often but this was different. Today was the first time he kept it on when we left. Usually when he wears it he will change, completely his choice, if I say we are going somewhere. He just wasn’t quite comfortable going out in public with it. Today he just put on his sandals. I asked him a couple times if he was sure and he was. So with a boy in a pink dress and Tinkerbell flip flops, we went. 

We hit up Goodwill (finally found some teacups I liked!), Lowe’s and Target. I kept a look out for how people reacted to him, just so if he noticed I could talk with him about it later. There were some curious looks but nothing major. Most people were looking at my hair anyway. The only negative reaction I saw was actually a surprising one. A young girl maybe nine years old gave him a dirty look as we were walking out of Target. Tristin didn’t notice since he was talking about his new Hello Kitty flip brush/mirror.  

I know there will be a day when he will notice how some people treat those who are “different” but I’m glad that for now he took a big step for himself and the world as he knows it is alright. 

Ahh, my heart! 

On top of the general adorbness of the story:

I had a childhood wearing dresses some of the time (albeit ones chosen by my mother, who had very….early 80s taste….) and got given Hello Kitty accessories, and it’s really nice to see a male-assigned and apparently male-identified child having similar experiences and still being recognised as male.

(Source: themamafox, via genderfork)

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